Moving house is always traumatic, which is why we don’t intend to do so for a couple of years! It’s exciting, yes, a little sad, yes, hilarious, yes, exhausting – beyond exhausting yes, yes, yes!
I don’t remember moving from the flat I grew up in to our next home… nor the move from Cambridge to the west country and there was a good reason, I was with cousins in Germany at the time! I do remember moving from the north of England back to the west country. When we made this move we were in the fortunate position that we had my father’s small two-bedroom property to move into as he had died some time before.
Because I was starting a new job in January, and not finishing my old one until just before Christmas we decided to move as soon as I finished work. The only slight fly in the ointment was that the day we were due to move was 23rd December, my aunty, uncle and mother-in-law were coming to spend Christmas with us arriving on the 24th (luckily they were all in a small hotel just across the road) and my disabled sister was also spending the festive season with us – oh and we were having two friends and their two adult sons with us on Christmas day to share the festivities!!
The plan was for my husband to set off with the children and arrive at my dad’s place, I would wait to oversee the removal and then I would clean round the place and gather any things we had left behind, and then come down in a hire car. Husband sets off, stops for breakfast on the way and arrives with the children… no sooner had he parked then the furniture van arrives – the removals men must have driven at the speed of light!
Nothing could quite match that in terms of hectic, chaotic and muddle, but when we moved from my dad’s place to our home here it was a very short move, almost literally round the corner. We had a removals firm for the big stuff but we hired a van and with the help of our two friends we moved round the corner… it’s so hard when it’s close like that, no sooner have you loaded the van than you’re unloading it again. it developed into me being at the new house and helping unload and stow stuff away in the moving boxes, the two men doing most of the shifting, although I would run back round if I had time, and wife-friend cleaned dad’s place.
Now wife-friend is an amazing cleaner, whizz whizz whoosh and the place is spotless, so just as she was working her magic there was a knock at the door and there were the new owners, chivvying her (to put it politely) to hurry up. As this was at 10:30 and they weren’t due to move in until twelve it was a bit of a cheek. My friend smiled sweetly and said “Oh I don;’t know anything about that, I’m just the cleaning lady!”

Years ago I was listening to a radio call in show and the subject was stress. They asked what was more stressful #1 A death in the family #2 Losing your job or #3 Divorce or #4 Moving? I called in and told them that I had just moved because I had lost my house in a divorce and may lose my job cause I went to work drunk. I was told to seek professional advice right away. Bye the way the correct answer was moving.P.S. The older you get the harder it gets to adjust to change.
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We are actually thinking ahead a few years and trying to clear a ,lot of our stuff… to the charity shop mainly! It’s still a ghastly thought!
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When I have to move everything can go but my teddy bear. We’ve been thru so much together!
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Mine too… although he is suffering from age a little
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