I remember being there

Can I really remember sitting in my pram? We were on Metcalf Road where we lived at number 18 (I didn’t know that then of course) and mum had pushed the pram up the road and we were outside the flat where veronica birch lived, which I think was next door to the Cobbolds – although of course I don’t know whether they were living there then. I was sitting up in my pram with my harness on and I think the hood was up – maybe it was very sunny, maybe it was windy. Mum was talking to someone, Mrs Birch, Mrs Cobbold, Mrs Frost who also lived nearby? A little face appeared at the side of the pram and a little blond boy looked at me. I reached out my hand to him, and he bit my finger! I was astonished as well as hurt and the memory ends there. Was he one of the Cobbold boys? Was he another little boy I don’t remember?  I would have been less than one, I guess, and as I was sitting up not snuggled under blankets, I think it must have been summer or autumn. I don’t know how old he would have been!

I remember going to the outdoor swimming pool on Jesus Green. I remember being there in the autumn when there were golden and brown leaves floating on the surface of the water, just as I was, on my back, with my arms and leg outstretched like a little starfish.  I learned to swim when I was very young, but would happily float around (no doubt mum was very close by) just letting the water buoy me up. It probably was in the summer and autumn after my first birthday in January that Mum first took me swimming. She would have pushed me in my pushchair from our house, the mile or so to the swimming pool, crossing over the River Cam to get there. The river became part of my life when I was older, and I wonder how many thousand, tens of thousand times I crossed that river, in pram, in a push chair, on foot, on a bike, in a bus?

I have memories of when I was older, but those early memories when I was so little are very precious.

My featured images is of my mum and her two older sisters and brother,

5 Comments

  1. David Turner

    The problem is that we now know so much more about how memory works and that those earlier ones were acquired much later from people who told us about the events. That explains why so many very early memories seem like out of body experiences.

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      1. David Turner

        When you think of those memories, do you seem to be seeing the environment through a toddler’s eyes, or is it an image of a world in which you can see yourself?

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